Simple life

Over the passed 10 years ++, I kept busy studying to get good result and working hard to get promotion & money, but i felt like i never really slow down to live my day. While in this 2 months maternity time, i had experience a lot of changes. I suddenly understand what is life...or should i say what is a simple life. Just take for example, yesterday i went out cycling around my mother's housing area, and i observed what had happen surrounding me. I saw some workers cleaning the road, throwing the rubbish, some housewife cleaning the floor, some aunty sitting in front of their house chit-chatiing, some people jogging, birds chirping, and so on... Suddenly there is a special kind of feeling come into my mind - this is what it call simple life... i feel so real and i like it so much compare to everyday work, meeting, arguing with people...i really feel so boring with this type of life.
Anyway, without work and income we cant survive also...but sometimes we really need to slow down and relax our mind and soul...dont sell our soul to the busy work life...

小光头

Yesterday while she is just about 2 months'old, mom suggested to bring her for the first time hair cut cause she get sweat easily like her father.

She cry so loud during the hair cut but luckily it was towards the end of the cutting.

This is her new looks ...now she looks like boy, like the little monk :)

Kai Shuen first outing

Last two sunday, we bring Kai Shuen out to "gai gai" for the first time - to have breakfast in old town :)
She was sleeping and so we just let her sleep in the stoller while me and JJ enjoying our breakfast and a cup of nice coffee.

Next, we plan to bring her shopping pula, hehehe :)

I feel motivated

Over the past 1 year time, i feel like life has less meaningful. Everyday when i wake up to work, i feel no motivation and always query myself what is my life for. This feeling has changed after having Kai Shuen. Even though i was tiring taking care of her, but i feel so satisfied and motivated each day. I dont know exactly why but i guess it is beacuase now that there is a small life depending on me, i have the responsibility and i became more strong :)

Taking care and playing with her is so much fun, especially now that she know how to smile back when i do the "ang gu gu" on her, she is such a clever gal, learn to smile and play ang gu gu in less than 1.5month times :)

Never thought that i could be so patient taking care of baby, but i did it, guess it is a mother nature. I must say great job to myself :)

Have you seen The Human Spring Cot?

Picture paint a thousand word :)

世上只有"爸爸"好....:P

Kai Shuen's present

Kai Shuen will be one month old this sat, thanks to all family and friends for the presesnt and ang pow. See her picture with her present...hehe..so many toys waitting for her to play with when she grow up! :)

That day aunty cook one special dish for me during the tea time. I call it Chinese Pizza cause it looks like it. It was made from egg, mee sua, onion and chili, taste good ler...I never knew that mee sua can make such a delicious food :)

Kai Shuen start to get naughty...

8 more days and Kai Shuen will be full moon, times really flew...After fullmoon when the confinement aunty went back, my challenge will start...now she already very naughty d, sleep very less and when she is not sleeping, she want poeple carry her and she dont like to stay on her bed...hmmm...even though at sleep, she seems to want poeple accompany her, once we left her alone, she seems to sense it and will start to make noise again :(
I guess this character of sleeping less follow me. I also not the type that can sleep a lot. People say lady in confinement period need to rest and sleep a lot, but i just cant. I lay down in the afternoon time trying to sleep but i just cant fall into sleep, so i prefer sit up and online :)
I even cant sleep early at night because usually i wake up around 9.30 in the morning. So i guess a day's sleep of 9 hours is more than enough for me :) Maybe i should change my habit, to sleep at 10.30pm and wake up at 7.30am...but i just dont feel like waking up earlier in the morning especially now that i dont need to work..kekeke...

However, good thing is I found her slowly likes to latch on already, and while doing so, sometimes she can fall into sleep. So i guess next time when aunty is back, and i have to take care of her at night, i will just lay down and let her latch on until she sleep :)

Really not easy to be mom and dad....One of my colleague used to say that coming to work now is like a rest for her...hehe..resting from being tired taking care of her baby.