There is this famous Hokkien proverb that i always treasure : 一样的米养白样的人（direct translation will mean something like the same rice people eat but it grow hundred different kind of characters). It is so true isn't it?
Some people are very helpful and caring, understanding, patient, fun to be with, faithful, and so on. However there are also another group of people where you dont find "click" with them or you find them very "interesting" like those who are selfish, always like to bullshit something good about himself, pretending, like to complain other and thought that he/she is the best person in the world, no tolerance (for example people can't talk loud or laugh in the office....), like to tell lies, become another person when start pat tor :)....so on and so forth..
Dont get me wrong, I am not saying that which group are good and which are not, just that 物以类聚，人以群分。 Well, my philoshophy is, if i meet those friend that can "click" together, it is a gift and i will apreciate it very much, but if i meet those that are not the same channel....er..why should i even think about it? :)
看人不顺眼是你自己不够修养。。。。Quote from founder of Chi Tzi